how do you flirt? like..i can recognize someone flirting but like i cant put it into words..idk if i flirt with guys cuz im not sure what exactly you do...could someone please explain?How to flirt?
STEP 1: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.
STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile.
STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.
STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.
STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.
STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.
STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.
STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.
STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.
*******Tips %26amp; Warnings*******
--Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.
--Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you.
--Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.
--Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.
I hope you get what you want. CiaoHow to flirt?
Flirting is giving extra usually physical attention to another person. You smile, touch their arms or shoulders... ask someone who's with you often.
it's looking into someones eyes and laughing at what they say, playfully pushing them a bit and standing closer than you usually would with someone else.
its just sumthin that comes naturaly i think.. u either got or u dont
Friday, August 20, 2010
Flirting???????????????????
ok this is a stupid question but i need tips on flirting, someone answerd this question and i got a responce of flirting and i need lots of help i dont know what to do becuase i dont flirt but i like this guys soooo sooooo much
here was the question i got the responce to:
ok i like this REALLY cute guy but i don't want to ask him out cause ill ber nervous and I'm afraid of being rejected and I'm new to the school so yea, i really really really like him but i want to talk to him but i don't want to say something and he doesn't even say anything I'm just scared how can i make him notice me? i have a class with him p.e. of course the one i look the worst in lol. well just please please please help :)
thank you
~Dakota~
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgaAGK0g2gAOIPSRKrsImxYazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080912225023AAEgsmVFlirting???????????????????
ok, so as he's working out or watever let him see you checking him out...but don't stare (this will prolly be really nerve racking for u but just stay calm). then when u see him see u (lol) make eye contact, smile then look away. you got him hooked sistaFlirting???????????????????
If you have an attitude that you are ugly in P.E he is going to think the same thing, keep a positive attitude about yourself and high self confidence and playing hard to get is always good.... it makes them want you more. =] but good luck! You sound like this is all new too you. Everybody has to go through that stage. You can do it. =]
Be yourself! hang with your friends! and laugh alot guys like it when girls smile!
Jesses older bro
smile and wave, guys like the attention
here was the question i got the responce to:
ok i like this REALLY cute guy but i don't want to ask him out cause ill ber nervous and I'm afraid of being rejected and I'm new to the school so yea, i really really really like him but i want to talk to him but i don't want to say something and he doesn't even say anything I'm just scared how can i make him notice me? i have a class with him p.e. of course the one i look the worst in lol. well just please please please help :)
thank you
~Dakota~
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgaAGK0g2gAOIPSRKrsImxYazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20080912225023AAEgsmVFlirting???????????????????
ok, so as he's working out or watever let him see you checking him out...but don't stare (this will prolly be really nerve racking for u but just stay calm). then when u see him see u (lol) make eye contact, smile then look away. you got him hooked sistaFlirting???????????????????
If you have an attitude that you are ugly in P.E he is going to think the same thing, keep a positive attitude about yourself and high self confidence and playing hard to get is always good.... it makes them want you more. =] but good luck! You sound like this is all new too you. Everybody has to go through that stage. You can do it. =]
Be yourself! hang with your friends! and laugh alot guys like it when girls smile!
Jesses older bro
smile and wave, guys like the attention
Flirting????????????
Flirting???????????????????
ok this is a stupid question but i need tips on flirting, someone answerd this question and i got a responce of flirting and i need lots of help i dont know what to do becuase i dont flirt but i like this guy soooo sooooo much
here was the question i got the responce to:
ok i like this REALLY cute guy but i don't want to ask him out cause ill ber nervous and I'm afraid of being rejected and I'm new to the school so yea, i really really really like him but i want to talk to him but i don't want to say something and he doesn't even say anything I'm just scared how can i make him notice me? i have a class with him p.e. of course the one i look the worst in lol. well just please please please help :)
thank you
~Dakota~
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Flirting????????????
Twirl your hair
Laugh.... A LOT
Smile when you are not laughing
Try to be funny
Don't ask questions that have one word answers
Stand kinda close to them, but not like you are on top of them (Save that for later) lol
Tease them just a little bit
I can't do it, but if you can bat your eyes a little bit when you are talking to them it works really well.
But don't forget to BE YOURSELF
Good Luck :)Flirting????????????
hmm. i don't know how to answer this. well just talk to him and be yourself, smile at him if he happens to glance at you, say you need help carrying books, and talk to him and giggle and make jokes. JUST BE YOURSELF!!
Please answer mine!!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Just be yourself and if you really like him just try to relax a bit and read him a little see if you can figure out if he likes you, eye contact is a good sign just be friendly towards him if he likes you it will show.
get his attention by like staring at him and if he stares back smile
Flirting addiction!?
ok so its taken me ages to admit this but i am such a huge flirt. im not trying to sound up myself but i am a very good looking girl and have french accent that guys just love lol! i have had an on and off bf for 18 months that im not kidding is perfect, hes so hot and smart (head boy at his school!!) and easy to talk to out going and treats everybody with huge respect. BUT im such a flirt. no other guys compare to him at my school or when im out on the riding circuit but i cant help with flirting with everybody!!! aaaaaahhhh! it makes me feel really good and i dont even know im doing it :(
and now im losing my bf he doesnt trust me and i dont know whether to just be single and be me and flirt or have him but not to flirt. someone tell me how to stop pls!!Flirting addiction!?
I think you should let him go. He sound like a really good guy that deserves a really good girl. Not that I am saying that you aren't a good girl because flirting is really not that big of a deal. It just sounds like you are just not that into him. If you truly wanted to be with him flirting with other people would be out of the question. You wouldn't want to do something that bothered him. Go your separate ways and both of you will be able to find people that make you happy...Flirting addiction!?
just tell him to be more protective of u and what he gets in return is a ride around the world ON you lol
if he really likes u like it seems he does tell him ur problem and work it out together...he might even have a problem that u cud help him wit!
we're riding in the same boat.
there's not much you can do to stop the addiction. your mind is set for you to talk to the guy(s) that physically attract you.
Hun, you've been together for 18 months, shouldn't he see that you love/like him enough that you would never cheat on him? it's a trust thing.
If he refuses, I'd try your best to stop. I know I know flirting is probably the most fun thing in the world. But he sees it as flirting, and its causing him to be jealous.
i think i my opinion that you should decide if you really care about ur bf, or if you just want to be ';everybody's gf.'; yes i admit u are pretty flirty. In your case, if you dump your guy, guys may not want to date you cause you're using the same sweet talk to everybody. if you keep your guy, people will see that your real and not cheating on him. trying to attract other guy's attention may make people see you as ';not to be taken seriously.'; some guy may bf you because of all your compliments to him, but then drop u like a sack of potatoes: in other words, use you. focus on your real bf, and why you like him.
guys will flirt with any girl that will flirt back, one of my exes flirted with other girls while we dated. if it bothers you, confront him about it. im sure hell deny it, but he knows what our meaning.
if u really want to stop just think about the fact that if u don't stop u wont have him anymore. he sounds like a great guy. i know it's hard to not make the guys lol bout ur French accent, i have one too. u have to learn how to control ur flirting tho. when i'm in a relationship i stop flirting with other guys and only with my bf. but when i'm single i do a lil' flirting. just think about it. would u rather give up flirting or lose a great guy?
That's what my girlfriend tells me I am the biggest flirt in Murry county and every woman here at work eats it up and they love it but so does my girlfriend she likes it when I bring girls home for us to share. so flirt all you want.
My boyfriend is pretty much in the same situation you are. You really need to decide wheather or not you really like him and if you do, give up the flirting. If not break up with him.
i know what you mean. i have a different boyfriend like every week, and i think i LOVE all of them, and thyre all SUPER SEXY and i love them, but then i start flirting with someone else and b4 u know it i have a new one.
idk wat to do.
well if you really like him stop flirtting i know its fun but you could control it and i dont think flirtting is bad as long as you dont do it in front of your bf because thats gonna make you look bad...layered hair thick hair
and now im losing my bf he doesnt trust me and i dont know whether to just be single and be me and flirt or have him but not to flirt. someone tell me how to stop pls!!Flirting addiction!?
I think you should let him go. He sound like a really good guy that deserves a really good girl. Not that I am saying that you aren't a good girl because flirting is really not that big of a deal. It just sounds like you are just not that into him. If you truly wanted to be with him flirting with other people would be out of the question. You wouldn't want to do something that bothered him. Go your separate ways and both of you will be able to find people that make you happy...Flirting addiction!?
just tell him to be more protective of u and what he gets in return is a ride around the world ON you lol
if he really likes u like it seems he does tell him ur problem and work it out together...he might even have a problem that u cud help him wit!
we're riding in the same boat.
there's not much you can do to stop the addiction. your mind is set for you to talk to the guy(s) that physically attract you.
Hun, you've been together for 18 months, shouldn't he see that you love/like him enough that you would never cheat on him? it's a trust thing.
If he refuses, I'd try your best to stop. I know I know flirting is probably the most fun thing in the world. But he sees it as flirting, and its causing him to be jealous.
i think i my opinion that you should decide if you really care about ur bf, or if you just want to be ';everybody's gf.'; yes i admit u are pretty flirty. In your case, if you dump your guy, guys may not want to date you cause you're using the same sweet talk to everybody. if you keep your guy, people will see that your real and not cheating on him. trying to attract other guy's attention may make people see you as ';not to be taken seriously.'; some guy may bf you because of all your compliments to him, but then drop u like a sack of potatoes: in other words, use you. focus on your real bf, and why you like him.
guys will flirt with any girl that will flirt back, one of my exes flirted with other girls while we dated. if it bothers you, confront him about it. im sure hell deny it, but he knows what our meaning.
if u really want to stop just think about the fact that if u don't stop u wont have him anymore. he sounds like a great guy. i know it's hard to not make the guys lol bout ur French accent, i have one too. u have to learn how to control ur flirting tho. when i'm in a relationship i stop flirting with other guys and only with my bf. but when i'm single i do a lil' flirting. just think about it. would u rather give up flirting or lose a great guy?
That's what my girlfriend tells me I am the biggest flirt in Murry county and every woman here at work eats it up and they love it but so does my girlfriend she likes it when I bring girls home for us to share. so flirt all you want.
My boyfriend is pretty much in the same situation you are. You really need to decide wheather or not you really like him and if you do, give up the flirting. If not break up with him.
i know what you mean. i have a different boyfriend like every week, and i think i LOVE all of them, and thyre all SUPER SEXY and i love them, but then i start flirting with someone else and b4 u know it i have a new one.
idk wat to do.
well if you really like him stop flirtting i know its fun but you could control it and i dont think flirtting is bad as long as you dont do it in front of your bf because thats gonna make you look bad...
How much of a flirt are you?
from a scale to 1-10?
I'd give myself a 5 or something, Sense I only flirt with someone I like.How much of a flirt are you?
5.5 Lol As you said, I only flirt with someone that is Hot or somethin Lol
xxx
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xHow much of a flirt are you?
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is it possible to go below one?
about 7
Depends on how they look Im a full 10. Oh yeah I go in, Big Flirt
8 @=%26gt; Can I flirt with you ??? (.*_*.)
6
10 +
8 / 10 :)
bout a 7 me thinks
I'd give myself a 5 or something, Sense I only flirt with someone I like.How much of a flirt are you?
5.5 Lol As you said, I only flirt with someone that is Hot or somethin Lol
xxx
xx
xHow much of a flirt are you?
%26lt;----------------this much-----------------%26gt;
is it possible to go below one?
about 7
Depends on how they look Im a full 10. Oh yeah I go in, Big Flirt
8 @=%26gt; Can I flirt with you ??? (.*_*.)
6
10 +
8 / 10 :)
bout a 7 me thinks
What is your favourite way to hit on your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?
How do you like to flirt with that special someone? Flirting tips, what you like to say.
:)What is your favourite way to hit on your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?
Tease them in a playfull way, but no harsh comments xWhat is your favourite way to hit on your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?
I make him origami. His favourite: flying crane. That's right.
I call her pu$$^ and she calls me pito
touch them
:)What is your favourite way to hit on your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?
Tease them in a playfull way, but no harsh comments xWhat is your favourite way to hit on your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?
I make him origami. His favourite: flying crane. That's right.
I call her pu$$^ and she calls me pito
touch them
How can you flirt...?
Alright, why would someone flirt without making it look like they are flirting? Like, how is it flirting, if you are making it not look like you are flirting? Doesn't that ruin the whole purpose of trying to flirt with someone? I'm confusedHow can you flirt...?
Start as friends for about a month or two, then best friends for however long, then go very slow. Start doing a lot of stuff together, then you're dating!! Just say wanna hang at the movies or wanna go to Saltgrass or something like that just dont say wanna go out.How can you flirt...?
some people dont know they are doing it!
most of the time it just happens, then when a friend points it out your like';...really?? wow. i didnt even mean to!!';
haha
Flirting is fun and innocent, when you are just talking to girls alot of the time you are flirting without noticing. and the purpose of flirting isnt getting with that person, it can be but it shouldn't always be.
here's a good site about flirting: http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
**LoL! i have no idea! I haven't flirted with someone before!
If you noticed it as flirting . The person is possibly shy. Speak up. Show some attention .You will soon find out whether or not the person is flirting or not .
Start as friends for about a month or two, then best friends for however long, then go very slow. Start doing a lot of stuff together, then you're dating!! Just say wanna hang at the movies or wanna go to Saltgrass or something like that just dont say wanna go out.How can you flirt...?
some people dont know they are doing it!
most of the time it just happens, then when a friend points it out your like';...really?? wow. i didnt even mean to!!';
haha
Flirting is fun and innocent, when you are just talking to girls alot of the time you are flirting without noticing. and the purpose of flirting isnt getting with that person, it can be but it shouldn't always be.
here's a good site about flirting: http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
**LoL! i have no idea! I haven't flirted with someone before!
If you noticed it as flirting . The person is possibly shy. Speak up. Show some attention .You will soon find out whether or not the person is flirting or not .
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