Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you react when someone flirts with you on the street?

My reaction is literally ';run and hide';. It seems that eye contact has never worked for me. I feel too embarrassed about it to find the courage and lift my eyes. So even if I like the guy, in the end I push him away. In general I prefer to meet men as friends and not straightaway as boyfriends. However, sometimes I can't help thinking that maybe this way I end up throwing happiness away with both hands. What should I do?How do you react when someone flirts with you on the street?
Well since getting married not many men want to flirt with me! So any attention from the oppossite sex, good looking or not, is jumped upon with great excitement!


Seriously though, if you consciously think ';Oh my God I'm flirting with him!'; every time you chat to a bloke, of course you're going to clam up %26amp; stare at the ground! Just relax %26amp; go with the flow! ANd remember - there's not that many truly confident people out there - just a lot of people who are very good at pretending!


If you don't feel brave enough to make complete eye contact, try looking at his nose or eyebrows. They're close enough to fool him into thinking oyu're gazing into his eyes! Good luck girl! You'll get there in the end! We've all gone through the same thing at some stage or another.How do you react when someone flirts with you on the street?
It's like you read my mind; I have the same exact problem. I guess the best thing for both of us to do is open up a little and expand our horizons. Next time a guy tries to make eye contact, swallow your fear and smile back. What's the worst that can happen? Who knows, you might meet someone really special.
u got to remember that if you start to talk with him he probably will get nervous too
Carry mace.
Smile!!! Smile makes any person beautiful (and confident). I mean why wouldn't you smile if you know the guy on the street just wolf whisteled you, at least you know you are pretty and not everythin is lost ( far from lost actually lol ) :)
Okay just give him a kick in the face, that's my girl.
If their sexy I get their number.
i talk to them
girl, you gotta flirt back! practice on your guy friends. it helps
Flirt back...The worst thing that can happen is a no....rejection is not the end of the world...
I just smile and .......think You can't have this
I'm with you!! I'm a guy and I can't even keep my composure, I try and get away.
if its unwanted tell him you gay
i would act like i was talking to my sister on the phone so they wouldnt bug me.and while i was talking i would say i would meet them sumwhere and start running acting like there was an emergency.(;
As a guy.. i'd say a lot of good things are lost by hit and runs like that... Probably the best thing you can do as a woman is make eye contact and flash a nice smile.. chances are the guy will just smile back, but if it's meant to happen, the guy will turn around... most of us are too shy though sometimes...
I ask her to my house
flattered
I walk away really fast. That creeps me out.





Try becoming friends with a guy and gradually form that into a relationship.
I look around, or look the other way because I am sure they are not flirting with me......must be a mistake or something.
Flirt back......
just nod your head and smile, or just flirt back b/c there is no harm in a little flirting.. other than that, I would just walk away. you can still talk to him even though you do not make eye contact. maybe meeting guys as friends is what works for you. everyone is different about how they do it..
i think that you should fight away your shyness, I'm not saying that you have to kiss the guy if he's cute you flirt back, smile or even wink and if he's not you give a polite friendly smile and move away.
i just smile and continue walking
Just smile back, it always works.


If you want to meet as friends before committing to anything more serious, the guy should respect that and if he's true for you he'll wait until you're ready.


Guys who can't wait are just like dogs on heat, sniffing around looking for a quick tumble in the hay.





As my grandmother always used to say ' whats for you, won't go past you'





Luv


Honey xx
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  • How do you stop flirting with someone?

    Currently, I am single. However, lately I have been flirting with 2 different guys. I feel like I could have a relationship with either one and that both of them are thinking about having a relationship with me too.


    If I start dating one of them, how should I stop flirting with the other guy because I don't want him to think that I don't want to be his friend anymore, but at the same time I can't continue flirting with him.How do you stop flirting with someone?
    Just tell him you are now in a relationship. Tell him that you would not like to continue flirting. Tell him you just want to be his friend.How do you stop flirting with someone?
    That's crazy, you just get a bit of self control!


    If you can't stop something as easy as that, i'd hate to think of what will happen when you come up against some real issues.
    Tell him that you have a boyfriend and give him an excuse why wont you go out the the person you dont want to flirt with anymore %26amp; tell him you just want to be friends :]








    Answer mines ?
    if u start dating one of the guys, jus tell the other guy that u and so and so just got together, then he'll get the hint?
    You just stop flirting. Be his friend but no more flirty stuff. Simple as that. Be friendly but not overly friendly.
    here is a funny to make him stop flirting with you. act like a compete crazy person then he'll be like wtf and move on. xD
    Don't do it anymore. Too freaking easy.
    visualize them dying of some horrible disease.
    just, stop. tell him you have a boyfriend, and you don't want to continue on like this.
    There is nothing wrong with making a choice. Don't worry be happy.
    your going to have to ignore them. this is the only possible way believe me! i have the problem too.
    ya just do
    tell him your seeing someone and say we should be friends after you ask him if he likes you or not

    Gay-how to make someone that i had crush on knows how i really feel?

    i really into this girl. i was almost everyday try to make eye contact with her(i said i was coz i dont do this anymore, got to concentrate on exam, and i feel frustrated coz she like dont care). i usually sit on front row in class, i was obviously always looking at her in class and i think my other classmates could see what im doing. they might had talk bout me too. but damn i dont care. i knew he had boyfriend but hes far away. theres always chance, and i want to grab mine. but, i cant tell straight girl like her that i like her.. straight to her face. no. she dont get it that im flirting with her. how stupid is that?. So how? i cant randomly ask her out.might freak out. and she always stick with her friend. What to do ? what to say? i dont want to end up acting weird everytime i saw her. What to do if i get chance to talk to her alone? what should i say?Gay-how to make someone that i had crush on knows how i really feel?
    You should re-write this...I'm not being rude but I really don't understand it.

    Whats something u can say when ur flirting with someone?

    how do u flirt? like what do u say? or does it just come to you and u say it?Whats something u can say when ur flirting with someone?
    It's just any talk and touch... ( not the private parts, just arms, waist, hips)





    don't make it so obviousWhats something u can say when ur flirting with someone?
    you have pretty eyes? stuff like that. make a comment about their personality. funny, nice, kind etc.

    How do you flirt and hint on Msn?

    I really like this guy and I know its weird to share your feelings with someone on msn, but how do you flirt with someone on msn?


    thanks.


    xxxxxxHow do you flirt and hint on Msn?
    mostly by typing i believe


    How do you flirt and hint on Msn?
    Make use of your webcam...(If you have one) if you don't...don't worry and use emoticons and when u have to go put an x on the last message, then after a week or more (dependant on how much you talk to him) add one more, and carry on every now and again. Just talk be honest making a few flirty comments and when an opportunity arises use ;) or ;P. Have confidence and it will come naturally, trust me it worked for me and my bf, id never had one before so was completely new





    hope that helped x :D
    It's better sharing feelings over the phone or face to face but if you really must express feelings over msn. Just act natural and say what you think of him and stuff. Be honest and don't lie.
    MAke Him Laugh.


    Share interests.


    make awkward smiles on webcam.


    put wink faces (Y)





    much love %26lt;3'#
    by using ;) ;) ;) ;)
    you don't


    try and det their number and ask them if you can meet some time not on the internet.


    not being mean just the truth


    best of luck
    Give him lots of winks ;)


    and suggestive language


    does the trick ;)


    good luck


    x
    make him laugh and show you're interested... :-)


    and make good use of the emoticons.
    smiley faces are sexy
    you little cyber sl*t!
    type %26lt;3 ofton, like when u have to go or something, or when ur like ';hey %26lt;3'; trust me, it works :p
    Way easier in msn than in real life! just add lots of smilies and winks, if that's what you mean

    How do I flirt with a guy?

    I like a guy at school and i can flirt but i don't know how to flirt with someone who may not like me back. What can I do to not seem desperate.How do I flirt with a guy?
    Okay it is pretty easy all you really have to do is when he walks by make sure he can make contact with you. You also have to make him your friend and then just ease on in until you get close rand closer then BAM your a happy couple!How do I flirt with a guy?
    start out by saying hi everyday to him in a cute way. If he does something back then move a little forward. Maybe a conversation starter to get to talk to him more. After a while do some cute sweet talk like you said the flirting and if he is enjoying it or giving feedback then he is into you.
    just flirt he might go out with you

    Is it wrong to flirt with someone at church? and how much of an age difference is too much?

    I am almost 19 and I like a guy at my church but is he is age 22 - 25. Is that too much of an age difference? He's really good with kids but unforetunately all the children in our congragation are girls so some people seem to think he is a creeper and I swear he is not! It is such a double standard because if I treated kids that way (i.e. hugged them when they hugged me) it would be seen as ok but I don't want people to think he's a creeper because he chose to date me. I think he likes me too though. We are both really shy so we don't talk much but I am in the choir so we often catch each others eye during the service and we smile at each other, blush and then look away and whenever we have a hymn about love he always looks at me right on the word love. Basically do you think it is okay if I approach him after church and subtley let him know I am interested. If so, how do I do that? I also don't want to be too public b/c I'd have to introduce the idea of us possibly dating gradually?Is it wrong to flirt with someone at church? and how much of an age difference is too much?
    you can deffinetely like someone at church!!! from the very beginning you have something in common- similar values! it's a good place to meet someone!


    and once you are over 18, then a 3 to 7 year age difference is not too much, it is perfectly fine!


    as far as letting him know you are interested, ask him after choir one day if he wants to go with you (or a group of friends) to get ice cream and then see where it goes from there!


    good luck!Is it wrong to flirt with someone at church? and how much of an age difference is too much?
    I met my husband at church. the way I approached him was to ask him what he was doing for evening meal and ask if he wanted to eat with me? He said ( and he's REALLY Shy) he never turns down a free meal. Go for it girl, there is no such thing as too many years in between as long as both are over 18. Have fun
    No it's not wrong as long as your not like blowing him kissing as the service is going on they're nothing bad with flirting with someone from your church. As for age that's a goo age difference old is when they guy could be your dad but what 3 to 6 yr is not a big difference. I agree it is a double standerd.Yes it's okay maybe just an invite to get coffee or something not like let go on a date but maybe as your taking mention a place you like to go and say something like maybe sometime we can go together and maybe you'll like it too. Good Luck ^_^ DJ
    it is not too much of an age difference if you have the maturity to date an older guy. i think church is actually a really good place to meet a guy, because then you know that you share at least some fundamental values with each other. based on the limited contact you've had so far, i would probably talk with him more and get to know him better before you decide to date him... maybe invite him out to coffee, just to talk about the sermon that you heard that day, that will give you some common ground, and eventually you'll probably just be talking about whatever and getting to know each other better. start out with the 'just friends' thing, especially if you want to keep it low key in front of other church members, then when you decide to make it official, everyone will just be like 'i knew it!' lol good luck
    No, only marry outside of your religion.





    I kid.





    Go on, just don't let the preacher catch you.
    i wouldn't say it's WRONG, but if you do end up dating this guy, i'd keep the flirting very low-key.





    before you think about being with this guy, think about why some people think he's creepy, and be OBJECTIVE, don't let your feelings cloud your judgment. sure, i'd hug people if they hugged me, but does he hug too close? etc.





    and 18 - 25...it's not a bad difference, but it's not all about age, it's about maturity. at this point in your lives, it's highly likely that he's at one point and you're at another, and you're not compatible at this point in time. at 25, he's gone through a lot of growth you haven't yet. if he's 22, this is much less likely. but you're the only one who will know if 18-25 is too big a gap.
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