How do you flirt with someone? helphelphelp i'm useless!!?

ok so I'm 15, at the peak of my datability...well probably not the PEAK, but i'm perfectly datable and stuff, the only problem is i don't know HOW to flirt with someone and show them I am interested in them. I grew up in a really repressed enviornment and never really got the whole ';showing my feelings'; thing down. There are a couple of guys that are just SO CUTE and like i've held eye contact with them and smiled at them and stuff..which is what it says to do in flirting manuals and such, but the problem then is that they come over to talk to me!! And i'm all ';oh crap'; because it doesn't say what to do when they actually start comming to you and stuff!! So yeah anyways, any tips on what to do next would be greatly appreciated because i am pretty sure my running in the other dirrection when they start heading towards me (after my grand display of flirting) isn't exactly helping with opporation get a date.How do you flirt with someone? helphelphelp i'm useless!!?
Here sweety, you're thinking about it to much !!





F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.How do you flirt with someone? helphelphelp i'm useless!!?
okay, all i can tell you is to just take it really lightly. if you are casual, you will seem more confident. also, don't try to flirt with guys you don't know. only try to do it with guys that are in your classes, or friends, or guys that you meet through friends.





just try to laugh, make jokes, keep eye contact, smile a lot, and maybe touch his arm or tease him. you can do it!
At 15 I hope you don't flirt seriously...you've got way too much to do in the next 6 years to go getting yourself involved with a serious relationship. That said, to find a guy to date on a platonic level you'll need to learn to make small talk. This involves asking questions that have to be answered with more than a yes or no. Don't say did you have a good day today....rather, ask what kind of day they had, or what was his favorite part of the day. You can ask about his interests, his family, sports or other extra curricular activities, what clubs or teams they are on, what their summer plans are, etc. Ask questions that you wouldn't mind answering, i.e. not real personal questions when you're just getting to know someone.


Good luck, I hope you find a very good friend that will help your self-esteem.
well im 18 and from my experiences you really just have to learn what works best for you and it will come with time. It doesn't just happen over night though sorry. But what works for me is just talking to guys like friends. Once you start talking to them you'll find yourself flirting nd didn't even know it. When they come over just ask how there days going or say something about school work or if there on the basketball team or something ask about that and get them talking. Obviously you dont know these guys inside and out so theres always something to talk about. and really act like your paying attention to what there saying. If things gat a little awkward just say you'll talk to him later and leave. But at 15 you should be concentrating on school and not boys lol