Friday, August 20, 2010

My best friend is a HUGEE flirt, altho someone like the guy :0?

yeah so shes a flirt.


big time.


she talks to lots of guys and flirts with them


even tho she knows that our other friend like this guy,


she flirts with him and now they are going out :0


i know i'm being paronoid, but i'm just wondering what would happen if i start crushing on a guy and she flirts with the guy?


it has happend more than once before with other friends.


she always say that she doesnt mean too, BUT she never stop flirting with the guys.


she even flirts and call guys at night while she was dating a long time crush of hers.


i'm not saying that shes a horrible friend are something, but shes just idk, a FLIRT.


also. shes not allowed to date.


so when she goes to dates (which is typically going to the movies)


she expects me and our other best friend to come along.


so she can tell her parents that either my mom or our best friends mom are dropping us off to the movies and only US THREE are going.


then she ditches us and hang out w/ her date.


now when she gets a date, she expects us to do the same thing all the TIME %26gt;:0


i'm getting really tired of it, and i dont know how to say KINDLY no i dont want to go.


please HELP.


arrrghh. too much probs.My best friend is a HUGEE flirt, altho someone like the guy :0?
if u have any boy friend thn plan for a date nd ask her to come along with u if she comes ....thn treat her with same manners nd ask her to leave u alone nd if she flirts with ur guy ............kick her a@# 'cos she is nymphomaniac.My best friend is a HUGEE flirt, altho someone like the guy :0?
Just make sure you get the guy first, once you do, if she starts flirting with him, you kick her a55.


This is also good cause the cat-fight will arouse the gentleman and lead to stronger feelings for you.
YOU JUST SAID IT kindly say to her no i do not want to go because i feel like you are using me just to go on dates an i do not want to do that any more simple sweetie good luck.
move on, find different friends! have a goodlife sweetie, you dont need a friend like that ok? if she asks you to come to the movies, say NO and then goodbye, you cant change people so dont try to change her! but hey, heres my advice:





The thing is, you have to love your friend for who she is..





And if it really bothers you, before you meet the guys explain to your friend, say;





“hey, i’ve got my eye on the blonde one.”





Or just state, that you dont want her to flirt with particularly all of them..





The right guy for you will see through her flirty ways…





Being flirty only is 10% of a guy liking her… Hopefully she has some personality to back it up.





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thats her using you and the other friend. thats very unfair. Explain to her how you feel, but from what youve said she seems like the person who will not care. But some people are naturally flirty. they cant help it. It is SOOOO annoying i know i used to have a friend like that. You feel intimidated so why are you guys friends? rethink it. or maybe try to hang out with just you three no guy. You sound very young, so also explain to her that always going out with guys and everything is a bad habit. She needs to learn about herself first and respect HERSELF first! It also doesnt hurt to work on the friendship.Good luck!

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