How do i flirt with someone who ';scares'; me?

i like this guy that i'm kind of friends with and i have this class with him, where we critique our work. he is very bright and i'm never nervous about the critique, but more him in general. we are in this club together after school and he is in charge of it, so i often stop him in the hallway to ask him questions about it, but i'm so shy we rarely really talk. once there were only a few people at the meeting for the club, so we did talk a lot, but i want to actually hint that i like him, without being extremely obvious. people have told me that he could like, but i need to be more aggressive and flirt, but i don't know how, because i'm really shy. please help thanksHow do i flirt with someone who ';scares'; me?
when you flirt, don't be like... ';come hither'; or anything. the slutty type of flirting always come off as... well. slutty.





i find that the best way is to be overly-friendly (FRIENDly as in... friendish. not lovey). so this includes, being very confident and comfortable with them. if your not comfortable with guys (it takes some getting used to) it helps to start small with guys you don't take any interest in. also, don't talk just about school. you can start with school, but find a way transition into other things outside of school/club/activities. On a more personal level, he'll begin to know you better. seems obvious BUT is completely, totally and 100% true.





A few things to remember:


1. confidence is the sexiest thing a woman/girl can have. end of discussion.


2. (this is more of a later stage in flirting) from my understanding, a lot of guys have sex on their minds. not all the time, but often enough. you can be suggestive without actually... suggesting. if you place an innocent statement well enough, a guy's mind will run with it and turn it into something more... just saying.





either way good luck! go get 'em tiger :)How do i flirt with someone who ';scares'; me?
Try to have a little conversation with him and ask him, are you going with somebody special. Break the ice and tell him, tell him he is very smart and that's why I like you. What's the worst thing than can happen that he say no or rejected you? so what. Be glad that you found out the true. Remember we never get anywhere when we are afraid or take chances. This life is learning processing. Next time it will be easier.