Monday, August 16, 2010

How should I flirt with someone who likes me?

I really like him too, but I get so shy around him, and I end up ignoring him... I feel so bad, but I can't help it.


We're both going to the same dance soon.





I asked him if he wants to hang out this weekend, and he said ';We should definately hang out.';





Any advice please?!?!?!How should I flirt with someone who likes me?
Uhm...hang out with him?How should I flirt with someone who likes me?
well hang out with him.





let loose, dont get yourself all worked up.





be yourself and have fun.





i think once maybe you get over being shy, the flirting part might come a little more naturally.





good luck!
if someone looking at you, how do you feel?


i think you will think you are so attractive ,is it?


the feeling can be transfer through eyes, therefore you must looking into his eyes, if you continue ignore him, he will be more confuse. Forget the false you have done, correct it since today. Just relax when being with him, just treat him as your friend first.


If hang out then you just hang out definitely.


This the chance for you.


and maybe this is the final chance.
Okay, don't get nervous. That always seems to **** you over somehow. Just talk to him more, try to make him laugh but don't over do it, start a conversation that will last forever, give some compliments and then maybe he will get the idea you are interested, pretend to be interested in what he is talking about, make eye contact, and smile alot.





That's all I can think of right now. I hope I helped.





:D
Well when you're hanging out with him, if it's one on one then you're not going to be able to ignore him and feel bad about it. Admitting your shyness to him may even make you feel more at ease with him and make help him understand that when you're around other people and him, you're not trying to be mean to him, but it's just that you actually really like him.
try your best to look confident. and you should wear something cool, that would boost your confidence up. because fashion matters. when you wear something good you feel good. and try not to ignore.. just be yourself except for the shy part. you really don't need to flirt with him, because you got him hooked already.. but if you really want to, be my guest. :D go ahead. you are in a win win situation anyway. :P
do what feels right, hopefully he's fun and has a sense of humor. Hopefully you do too. Go do something fun like rollerskating or bowling, that way you can have him hold you up
Hello..well I did this, I was in the same situation as you.


If he goes with some friends be like '; Oh, let's all dance!...once everyone on the dance floor is moving their groove just take that step and dance close to him---that is if he's not dancing with another girl---but in any case get close and just say something like..wow the music is good or like..if it wasn't for you guys the dance would suck..


I am pretty open person so..it was easy to play off like that but if your shy..I'll say go for the ';Do you need something to drink?..o man I just LOVE dancing..


Good luck!
There's no advice to give, just keep doing what you're doing. Looks like everything's going great.
tell him your shy he'll understand why you get silent or ignore him
I know you feel! Believe me! I used to have that issue too when I was younger. Some things to keep in mind:


-He likes you. If he didn't he wouldn't say yes to hanging out. The hard part (Asking him to hang out) is already out of the way, so be proud of yourself for asking. It's a tough thing to do!


-Guys like girls who have confidence. The more sure of yourself you seem the more he is going to want to get to know you. Even if you aren't all that confident just pretend you are. What I used to do, and I know this sounds silly, but imagine yourself as someone you really admire and try to think about what they would do or say. Now, still be yourself of course, but try to sort of chanel a person with more cofidence, if that makes sense.


-Bring some friends along. They can help you some out of your shell too.


-If it doesn't work out don't worry about it! There are plenty of other guys out there. Don't stress over stuff like that.


Other then that just have fun!
yeah HANG OUT WITH HIM.... he sounds pretty cool so give him a shot i am sure he is shy as well and well try to be alone with him its easier to talk when no one is watching... i am sure you guys have a lot in common... so go see a movie because no one can talk in there and you guys can be shy but still be together

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